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Communication in Dreams With Your Twin Flame

Mon, Jun 14, 2010

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Have you felt as though you are communicating in your dreams with your Twin Flame? Do you feel as though you are traveling at night but not aware of where you have been? Many of us are preparing for twin flame reunion. One of the steps for physical reunion is releasing the ego as much as possible so that it is easier to consistently remain in the space of unconditional love with each other. Our dream time is one way that we can communicate with our twin and do work on an unconscious level. We will discuss this deeper with more details.

72 Responses to “Communication in Dreams With Your Twin Flame”

  1. Joana Says:

    I think, I met my twin flame almost 2 years ago. We don’t talk to each other, he only used to stare a lot on me when I was fare away. I did the same. I need to tell that he always kept his eyes away from me when he was close to me, and I really never saw his eyes. He seems so shy. Strange feelings I felt when he was around: inmense love and ecstacy. Like being in heaven. This scared me a lot, why do I feel so intense for somebody I don’t know who is? I never felt this way. I used to feel pain in my chest when I knew I will see him. I tried to fight this feeling, I’m married with a good man, but I know he does not love, ok he love me, but like his sister. We don’t have intimacy for many years, I guess we are only together for our son. But anyway my twin is young for me, like Cher and Tom Cruise or Linda Evans and Jani something like that. This make me feel embarrass, I don’t look my age, but I know I’m older for him. I have a dream, in this dream one of my twin’s friend told me that he was my husband, but “he needs to work things with seven persons.” I guess that we are not going to be together in this life time, only God knows. I feel a intense conection with him, I dream with him and feel him during the day. I think on him 7/24, Am I crazy?

  2. Christopher Says:

    @ Lost Here,

    While I’m sure that you’re anxiously waiting for Gabriella’s response, let me say that your experiences mirror my own- except to say, that even though our two encounters were extremely short, there is NO doubt in my mind that she is my twin flame, even though I had never even heard of the phrase “twin flame” before meeting her.

    I have written of my experience elsewhere on this site, so need to retell the entire story, except briefly…

    When I first encountered my twin flame, I knew within 1/10 of a second that she was “the one”. She approached me from behind, to offer assistance at a store where she was working.

    As I turned to ask her a question, I did not even get a chance to see her face or body- her bright, green eyes were like magnets! My eyes were drawn instantly into hers as if there was this intense, divine connection which had been preordained from the beginning of time. The experience completely blew me away- I couldn’t even finish my sentence!

    Her eyes- oh my god, they were these infinitely deep, glowing green orbs! You know how when you see someone’s eyes outdoors, and the sunlight hits them just right, so that they are filled with light? It was kind of like that- but much more intense.

    Over the past few years, I have experienced increasing awareness of my own psychic abilities, but these have always been kind of faint and inexact- for instance, with some individuals, I can sometimes experience brief feelings of mutual understanding, or discern (sometimes) when someone was being dishonest with me. Other times, I have been able to tell people exactly what they were about to say, before they even began to say it.

    In the case of my twin flame encounter, this was the first direct telepathic “conversation” which I can ever remember experiencing. What’s more, the conversation which took place only lasted, maybe, 30 seconds, but I feel as though the amount of information which was exchanged could have easily filled an entire encyclopedia. I can now say from experience that spoken language is but a faint shadow of the level of communication which is possible through telepathy!

    In conclusion, I do not believe that you have mistaken your twin flame encounter, based on the connection which you shared instantly with this person. Also, it does seem like your feelings of reservation might be related to your life situation at the moment.

    If this helps you feel any better, I can also say that my own life situation is not, at present, conducive to the further development of this twin flame relationship, as I am married to a soul mate, and am unsure how (if ever) I am going to make the transition.

    Because the title of this post is “Communication in Dreams With Your Twin Flame”, allow me to relate the experience of the one lucid dream which I’ve shared with my twin since meeting. I’ve had lots of other experiences of feeling a direct psychic connection with her, but presently I sense that we keep very different sleeping schedules (partly due to the sleeping habits / medical needs of my wife), indeed it seems like lately I get very little deep sleep at all- therefore the opportunities we’ve had to meat in the dream world have been somewhat limited.

    In the dream, I find my twin flame in a beautiful garden by the sea. There are rosebushes, trees and butterflies, birds chirping, etc., and we are near an ocean, which is odd because we both presently live in the midwest.

    When I meet my twin flame, I cannot remember for sure, but she may have been painting at an easel. This may be my imagination here, but I am an artist, and when we met, I got this immediate, overwhelming impression that she is an artist too.

    The dream was very short, but I can remember asking her if we could get to know one another better- I still do not even know her name! Her response to me was that “it wouldn’t be a good idea” because I am married. In my dream, as we stood in the garden, there was this distance between us- even though she is so intensely beautiful, and I only wanted to reach out and hold her in my arms, I remember feeling very strongly that I had to respect her wishes, and not argue with her. I sense that she is a much more spiritually grounded person than I, and she refuses to be the one to break up a marriage.

    After a brief standoff, where we both stare at each other just beyond arm’s length, I simply jump on my bicycle and begin riding away. I look to the sky, and can see a long line of storm clouds approaching, and yell back at her “storm’s a coming”- I cannot remember her responding, or even noticing. I then pedal my bicycle away, back to a busy highway, at breakneck speed, dodging cars and pedestrians on my way towards a bridge leading towards a nearby city.

    I interpreted this dream on two levels- one, that my twin flame has great respect for the sanctity of marriage, and would never violate this sacred oath. Secondly, I believe that my rush to go back to the city is a reflection of my deep soul-level need to complete my greatest life work, which I have been working on for ten years.

    It might be easy to judge me for wanting to “jump ship” from a marriage with a soul mate. My wife is an amazing woman, and I want always to be able to have her as a friend- after 3 years of marriage, however, there are just so many differences in between us, and it now seems likely that she’ll never be able to give me children, for various medical reasons which are too complicated to list here.

    Moreover, I feel so confident that a relationship with my twin flame would allow both of our talents to flourish in such a way that wouldn’t ever be possible working independently.

    One thing is certain- my encounter with my twin flame has changed my life forever. I believe this might be the greatest test of a twin flame encounter- if you are essentially the same person afterward, then it is likely that this person isn’t your true “twin flame”.

  3. Joana Says:

    I’m not the same, after I met him (my twin flame). ALL my past sentimental relations seem just infatuation now. I truly believed in the past that I was very deep in love maybe two times. It was not love, I can say now. I believed that the love I feel for my twin flame did not exist. I used to think that Romeo and Juliet were crazy. But now, I don’t think they were crazy. I sense when my Twin when he goes to sleep, I feel him hugging me. When I dream with him I feel so happy next day. I feel when he is happy or sad. I send my love to him when he is sad. I know he is having hard time because he can not see anymore. The same happen to me, sometimes I cry, I’m feeling better these days. But at the same time I don’t want to see him. I’m married with my soul mate. I know he does not love me romantically, he said this to me in the past, I suffer a lot when he told me that. MY relation with my soul mate have been tormented and I allways felt alone; but since I met my twin flame, I don’t feel alone anymore, even if we are not together and the chances to be together are very slim. Just thinking on him fill my heart and give me happiness. My life change completely. I don’t know if someday I will make the transition from the relationship with my soulmate; we a son and he needs us together, but another obstacle for me is my age. I’m older than my Twin flame. The other strange feeling when I knew I will see twin flame or be close to him, was a pain in my chest, I felt like was ready to faint. Being close to him was like feel paralized, I even could not say Hi! nothing even I could not smile to him. He used to sit the far away he could from me, then I did the same. One day, there were not chair in the classroom and I sit by his side it was the only available chair I saw, and he move from there, abruptly. He could not be close to me. So after this incident I did the same. We were taking clases together almost 4 semesters and we could not start any conversation with one another. He only used to stare a lot on me, when I was far away.
    Thanks for reply my post.

  4. Christopher Says:

    @ Joana, It may be that you have found your twin flame, but that your union in this lifetime is not yet meant to be physical- perhaps neither of you are ready yet, based on the pain you describe when around him.

    In my case, I feel the opposite- when I have been in the presence of my twin, my heart felt like it was singing! The second time I saw her I could psychically sense my aura expanding around me, filling me with a great sense of peace and oneness, even though part of me was crying because I yearn to connect with her physically.

    Almost all of the stories of twin flames reunions I have read seem to indicate that this reunion is always a long, drawn-out process, filled with many painful emotions, and needing to overcome many obstacles.

  5. Joana Says:

    Maybe you are right, when I used to see him my heart could not stop pumping at the begining, then after a while I feel an inmense peace and happiness being just there close to him or around him, but when he or I used to leave I experience an inmense pain of separation. It was like a chemical reaction: the reaction, bonding,and separation of the bonding. I feel better when I think on him, or feel his presence, and dream with him. Maybe, I’m crazy, but I feel that we talk a lot through telephaty and share an inmense intimacy. But just thinking to see him physically even if I want, make me feel so scare, because I will not know what to do, or say. I had a dream where my husband and him were together, my husband seems that he knew him in my dream. The relation with my soulmate or present husband has evolved the way I see him like a friend or brother. I love him this way too, like a friend or brother. It is nice to talk about this with somebody; when I started feeling this emotions and conection with him was when I started reading about twin flames. I did not find books about this subject. Maybe nothing is written yet.

  6. Sidney Says:

    Christopher, I know you touched on the idea of how others might judge you for contemplating leaving a marriage with a soul mate. Let me reassure you (and anyone else), you are among friends. There will never be judgement from those of us who are trying to reconcile marriage and family commitments with twin flame reunion. Maybe it is a long, drawn-out painful process to give us time. Time to work through our fears. Time to choose love, over and over again and watch it grow bigger and stronger. It isn’t easy and I will stand alongside anyone who has the courage to go through their own twin flame reunion. No judgement, only love.

  7. Gabriella Says:

    Blue Ocean, you can read my response to your question here: Pain Comes from Fear: Recognize It and Understand There is Love Underneath

  8. Joana Says:

    I don’t know if my husband (soul mate) sense what is going on with me. I’m listening frequenlty romantic music and I get lost in my thoughts. My soulmate knows that I’m very romantic. And he is not( he told me in one occasion that he could not be romantic with me); now I feel a little embarrass with him. I was asking to him what my twin flame can give easily: a thousands of hugs. I feel my twin flame always hugging me. I don’t want to hurt my soulmate, but sometimes I think that is he the one that wants to leave our relationship. In the past I told him that he does not need to be with me because I can take care of myself. But I guess, if he is with me is for our son. Before, I met my twin flame, my soulmate lied to me and it hurt me a lot. But now, since I met my twin flame that pain is gone. Now, I feel so happy that in this life time, I knew a real love even though maybe we are not meant to be together physically.

  9. Sidney Says:

    I suppose I am fortunate- I have been able to tell my husband what is going on with me. He doesn’t believe in the idea of twin flames or a soul. I jokingly tell him he is on “vacation” from spirituality this life time. But he does listen patiently and understands I have an unusual connection with my TF. The longing to be with my TF is a longing to create together at all levels and I want nothing else. It is my sole/soul desire. To create more beauty, more joy, more laughter, more acceptance, more love.

  10. Joana Says:

    Sidney, is your TF incarnated or is in heaven? I used to think that mine was there in heaven. I used to dream with this misterious man, I used to talk with him in my prayers . I dreamed with him many times or found him in my meditations, but I never saw his face and the comunication was by telephaty. I thought that him was just my gardian angel. I was in love with him, I knew it, and many times I used to let him know to go away because I was married. But when my relation with my husband became so painful, I prayed for him to come with me otherwise I will be crazy. Then, my husband told me to take some classes at the university and it was when I met my TF. Many times ask to myself, what I’m doing here taking these clases that there were not in my field. My soulmate is not an spiritual person, he is a very practical man, he never remember his dreams. He believes in UFOS and ghosts, but that it is. I’m a very spiritual person. It is unbearable to met my TF and not to be able to be with him. It is what I wish with all my heart, be with him and never be apart from him. But at the same time I think that we need to do some homework before we get together.

  11. Gabriella Says:

    I am really loving the conversation that all of you are sharing on this post…I don’t always have the time to respond to everyone’s comments as they come, which is why this blog has been created, in addition to my responses for YOU all to share with each other, thank you for doing that and for feeling that this is a SAFE nonjudgmental space for you to do so, but rather one with the deepest unconditional love and allowance for the natural unique unfolding of your journeys while also sharing in the similarities of the twin flame journey.

    That said, let me say that what you said Christopher, “Almost all of the stories of twin flames reunions I have read seem to indicate that this reunion is always a long, drawn-out process, filled with many painful emotions, and needing to overcome many obstacles.” is accurate to some degree, however, I don’t like to use the word “obstacles,” because I honestly feel that there is only opportunities for growth as the path brings us more and more in alignment with our true selves and the deepest parts of our being, that truly is love…we do need to recognize and remove all of what is not love…this is where I believe we are in agreement, that the “obstacles” or “opportunities for growth” are what can block us from perhaps receiving love from ourselves and seeing it within every relationship, every experience, every moment. As you all know, there are some painful emotions through the process of reunion, and I must say, that this pain comes from the many lifetimes where the human experience of being alive felt profoundly the feelings of separation…as we are now recognizing and understanding that there truly is no separation from the twin…and it does take an understanding of this to be felt, known, believed and acted upon to move into the space of union within, which lays the continuous pathway towards the union with the twin in any given lifetime.

    This union is always also present even when one is sharing love with a soul mate…and the more you understand that union is all there is all the time, it becomes easier to be able to express the truth of the twin flame connection to your current partner, if it is not the twin flame. Sidney, you bring this out quite beautifully when you expressed that you have told your soul mate about the twin flame connection/love you are feeling/experiencing and while he may not completely comprehend it, he is listening openly to it. My soul mate whom I was sharing with the past 4 years has been the same…moving from not listening to what I shared regarding soul contracts, twin flames, my experience with my twin flame and so much more to letting go of layers and layers of the mind to come into truly listening from a soul place what I was sharing…and knowing that the love we have shared throughout the years has been a part of my twins growth, mine and my soul mates. The love that we have shared in was not separate but all inclusive…and now we have since physically transitioned from our relationship with each other (as we are and always will be very close friends)…part of what will be unfolding for me to share with all of you is my soul mates side of our experience/relationship to show the interconnectedness, the unity of all love as it is shared, what union truly is…from the perspective of the soul mate who is open in unconditional love and sees what union truly is, all layers of jealousy, anger and such disappear, replaced with a deeper understanding that love with one is love shared with all (this is the pathway of union consciousness)…this is so much so with soul mates and twin flames. This will be expressed in more detail in my next book too…

    Many of you are meeting your twin flame while in a relationship or your twin is in one for the laying out of the process of deep unconditional love and union that recognizes this love is all inclusive…and the unconditional, respectful part comes in to allow for the natural unfolding of the smooth transition for all involved if there is indeed a soul contract to transition from a soul mate relationship to a twin flame union. This is why I often talk about how important it is to be in the moment and follow your guidance as it comes…you will know in each moment what next step to take. And of course, it does go without saying, but I’ll say it anyway. You are not alone ;-)

    And absolutely Christopher, that when you encounter your twin flame, you are not the same afterwards, as meeting your twin pushes you into a spiritual awakening of self, of love, of the connection and meaning of it all, helping you to love yourself as you see yourself within your twin, which then brings a deeper sense of love within so that you desire to share it with all…yet I also have to say here that the higher up the ladder of love you go, the more your soul mates will also help shape you and guide you into deeper parts of yourself and consciousness, changing you as well…all in preparation for the union with the twin flame. It is a beautiful tapestry of the evolving of deeper love in all its many layers.

  12. Sidney Says:

    Joana, my TF is very much alive and breathing. We are almost exactly the same age, both married and each have a child. Our spouses have met, and we have never tried to exclude them, but they seem to instinctively leave us to our relationship. We both have challenges in our marriages and are very conscious to be respectful of these commitments. I have cried knowing that at a soul level, he has been willing to be “in lesson” in his marriage where he is denied love, affection and respect. And I feel compassion for his wife for being the soul willing to present the lesson, which of course, affects us both. My own marriage has been in a transition-slowly being disassembled. At one time I had thought to speed up the process, but it was too emotionally distressful for all concerned. It has it’s own timing. My husband and I certainly get along well, so it has been strange to recognize that the marriage came with an “expiration date”.

    It is difficult not to express physical affection for my TF. On the other hand, I have become more sensitive in picking up on the energy in his voice, thoughts, movements. We are adjusting to each other. I think all TF’s want to rush the process of reunion and are frustrated that things don’t happen according to our ideas about how fast or slow things need to change. I keep wanting to speed things up, to get to the place where we are in perfect communion. Time is a blessing. These energies are so strong and are building. And the journey isn’t as appreciated as it should be, with each of it’s perfect moments revealing more love.

  13. Joana Says:

    I just want to ask, if somebody knows why when I find my TF in meditation or in my thoughts, he is giving me instructions by telephaty to stare or look his eyes. I can not stare on his eyes for long and he keeps telling me look at my eyes. The energy coming from his eyes is overwhelming.

  14. Joana Says:

    LostHere, I never even shake hands with my TF the closest we were together was when he opened the door for me, also we were together alone in the elavator for seconds until another person went into this elavator, then this person left the elavator and again we were there alone in the elevator for a couple of seconds until we reach the level 4. We were taking clases there at level 4. I only remember how nervous he was, he almost broke his pen that was holding on his hands. I could control myself better than him. In two occasions I open the door for him. The first time, I did not know he was behind me, when I was holding the door open, I turned my head and stare on his eyes for a second, then I felt an inmense love coming from his eyes, he looked at me with a love I never see on my soulmate (husband)’s eyes or anybody. I got very confuse, asking me the question, how can be this possible, If I did not know him, I just knew his name. The second time, the same, I did not know that he was behind me and I was holding the door open, he just told me “Thank you!” I could not even open my mouth, I got scare and paralized.

  15. Sidney Says:

    You might have heard the common expression “the eyes are the window to the soul”. Are you afraid of what you might see when looking in his eyes or afraid of what yours might reveal? I can only say that within a couple of weeks of meeting my TF, we did look directly into each others eyes on more than one occasion. What made it unusual was how direct, unwavering and comfortable it was to hold each others gaze for so long. We don’t really do this anymore, but we do tend to catch each others eyes to “check in” with each other. If you were to ask me, I would say that looking into another person’s eyes is how we recognize souls that we are close to.

  16. Christopher Says:

    @ Sidney,

    Yes, I agree with you completely. I have only been lucky enough to catch my TF’s eys on two occasions, and the 2nd time was only for a fleeting second.

    The first time, though, was exactly like you say- I honestly don’t think I’ve ever stared at anything as long before, without blinking, as I did my TF’s eyes. I remember thinking, when I first saw her bright green eyes, “oh, now that’s something…” and then I was just sucked in!

  17. Christopher Says:

    @ Joana,

    I am just hypothesizing, but here are my thoughts:

    Quantum mechanics suggest that “time” and “space” are merely illusions, as every point in time and space are engaged via instantaneous, quantum entanglement with every other point in time and space, across vast distances, as observed via subatomic experiments.

    Perhaps the key to unlocking quantum entanglement, is that two objects (or individuals) within time and space must be operating at an identical vibrational frequency (or wavelength)?

    If this is so, then it could be that your Twin Flame is an individual who’s DNA is designed to operate at an identical vibrational frequency as your own. Therefore, when looking into their eyes, it is possible that Twin Flames are exchanging bio-photons which, by operating at an identical frequency, allowing us to unlock the mysteries of time and space itself?

  18. Joana Says:

    WOW!Christopher, that explain everything, I’m not so scare now, thanks. A couple of times I had the sensation that my TF takes my face with his hands and make me look into his eyeS, the message was, “if we want to be together, you need to look into my eyes” well that was the idea of the message I got; not exactly with these words. Now, I can understand that the communication by telephaty is not the same to the communication by words. By telephaty, I understand the message without the need of any word. He gets mad when I tell him that I’m older than him too. He says: “don’t come to me again with that!.” I feel that maybe he is more speritual than me. I don’t know if the experience of meeting my TF awake some powers on me, but now more than before, I feel when people is sincere or when they are not. I can read, them before even talk with them. Also, I always find series of numbers when I Turn my eyes to see my clock, usually I find many 11s, and the funniest it is that I always see numbers like for example: 212,454, 323, etc. always one number in the middle of two equals, I find a lot 222,333,555. I thought, it was just a coincidence. I don’t know anything about numerology.

  19. Joana Says:

    Sidney, I don’t feel scare, I say this because I want to see into his eyes, but the experience is so intense, so what I do is look into his eyes and then close my eyes and then look again and close my ayes again.

  20. Sidney Says:

    Hmm, yes, the intensity is something tricky to handle. I find that there is an amplification of emotions (both positive and negative) when around my TF or just talking on the phone with him. The first few times I heard his voice on the phone, I nearly dropped it out of shock. This amplification almost certainly has to do with biology/physics, as Christopher suggests. Two in-phase wavelengths or energy fields amplify, although I would be hard-pressed to think of experiment that could demonstrate this with TF’s.

  21. Joana Says:

    Sidney, so much to learn and understand about twin flames my life was quiet before meeting my TF, but when I met him for the first time I felt alive. When I meet my twin flame on the astral plane or in my dreams I feel free to communicate with him, but in the physical plane I feel that I can not hundle this energy and niether can him. Do you think people around twin flames can feel the energy this TFs emanate?

  22. Sidney Says:

    I do think other people sense something when there is a TF energy. I have seen people react very strongly when we are in the same room. Usually there is a positive vibe, but there have been times when others have inexplicably become hostile. We are both adept at lightening the atmosphere, so it has never really been a problem to diffuse any negativity. We don’t flirt with each other at all (a bit of teasing now and again)-so there isn’t a sexual vibe that would make others uncomfortable. At the same time, I can say that I find my TF incredibly attractive. More attractive than I will ever find anyone else to be. You could introduce me to the hottest Hollywood stars and none could come close to matching the pull I feel towards my TF. It is magnetic, electric, and intense. There is also an incredible tenderness between us when the high energies settle down and I only feel more love and gratitude towards him. It isn’t all rosy. There is some anxiety that creeps in (mostly on my side) when I don’t hear from him for a while. It is like a dance, where some of the time we are very close and can easily share our thoughts and feelings and hopes, and some of the time we are further away and connect in more subtle ways: in dreams, for example. But we’re still dancing, right? And I know where the anxiety is coming from. It is the fear that it will all be taken away and I will be left without my other half, with no way for us to walk back to God. So, we do the best we can to trust the process, don’t we?

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