Q. Hi – I have made my twin very mad, thinks I am crazy – done some not
nice things out of ego. I worked with someone who said they could
sever our contract, etc on this earth. Then had a dream about my
twin. Is the contracts null now? Help!
A. I can’t speak for the person that you worked with on severing your contract with your twin flame. However, I can say that I do not believe that you can “sever the ties” with your twin flame because that would be like cutting off a piece of yourself. Your twin flame is so much engrained into the energetic makeup of who you are. As you go through your experiences, your emotions, your growth, these vibrations are being sent to your twin flame as well and vice versa. On a soul level, we all desire to merge with the other essence of our selves, hence the desire to be in relationship and reunite with our twin. Our souls would like nothing more than to be together in all ways, the spiritual and physical. But when we incarnated on Earth, we were given free will.
Free will allows us the chance to consciously choose our reunion with our twin. In order for us to do that, we do have other relationships and experiences in our life to give us many opportunities of growth, to move away from the ego and the mind to the space of true unconditional love, for this is the only way that twin flames can come together physically and stay together. If you are feeling that this is not the case for you and your twin right now, you can communicate with him through your dreams, through your thoughts, your emotions, in meditation or just like you would talk to a friend. What you send he will receive on whatever level he is ready to receive it. You cannot sever the connection with your twin flame as it is not possible, however you can express how you feel and what you are choosing right now in this moment. The soul of your twin flame loves you SO much that whatever you choose, the soul knows that it is out of love. We all have our own process of growth and no choice is ever right or wrong, it just is.
Have faith that you will come together in all ways at the perfect time…but know that the connection can shift and change, that you can continue to be in the moment living your life, even sharing love with another in deep close relationship…and that all of the steps you choose to take are perfect for your growth and your journey. You don’t need to feel that you need to separate completely in order to do this. Unconditional love would never create separation like that, but it can choose to move direction and focus for the benefit of your own well being right now.
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16. March 2011 at 9:37 am
Gabriella, do you have any idea, when a soul gets “connected” to the body? Is it at birthtime or is it at fetus time or even earlier?
I know that my twin had a hard time getting born at all.
Since I was already “on board”, I might´ve helped her by sending positive vibrations to her without knowing. And she resent these vibrations “to the situation she was in” to help herself reaching daylight…
Hmm.
Just some thoughts…
16. March 2011 at 1:11 pm
Ingo,
The exact time that the soul gets connected to the body varies from soul to soul, depending on what the soul chooses to “experience” and grow from in this particular lifetime. There is not one exact time that fits for each one. In that way, it can’t be generalized. I’m not sure what you mean by having a hard time getting born, however, perhaps her soul was attached to the body through that hard time for learning, for growth and healing. What can be considered hard to the human eyes can be thought to be “fun” through the eyes of spirit because of the opportunities it presents.
18. March 2011 at 4:41 pm
I don’t know if this will be of any help, but I remember listening to one of Lee Carroll’s Kryon chanelling sessions in which he states that the soul connects to the body during birth, while in the birth canal. I wonder what the source of your twin’s resentment really is, because no one can force a soul to do something that hasn’t been agreed to…you two obviously had agreed to incarnate (however difficult) or it would not have happened. I think Gabriella always has very sage advice. And I hope I am not overstepping any web etiquette here, but one other site that I have found helpful in uncovering and clearing blockages in myself and my twin is http://www.inner-speak.net/
22. March 2011 at 3:27 pm
Sidney,
I completely agree, that no one can force a soul to do something that hasn’t been agreed to. There is a soul choice before physical birth and full incarnation…and then there is free will also when the soul is within the body, that however is never taken away. Free will can affect and change what has been agreed upon by the soul beforehand…not sure as to what the details were with Ingo’s twin, and we may never fully know as her soul would be the one to know all of her agreements, etc. I also agree with you Sidney that if there was a change that free will created during the process of birth, then both of them would not be here now. Don’t worry about overstepping anything with supplying us all with the additional link
I feel that we all have our unique colors to add to the whole rainbow and that sharing others insights by no means takes away from anyone else. Love to you!
7. May 2011 at 10:44 am
Hi Gabriella, I am going through the same emotions as person above , my heart is breaking, I feel everything I do is pushing him further and he is about to marry someone else, he denies us and thinks I am mad, I feel like I am going crazy, but hearing other people going through same lets me know I am sane. Every reading I have tells me he will return soon??????
Im totally lost here? Help, wish I could comfort others by saying I am going through same at moment , but keep hoping and loving him, nothing else to do!!!
Thanks
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23. October 2011 at 10:29 pm
My twin flame also denies me because I am not in his social class, and can get better looking then myself. I am not sure we are meant for this lifetime. we were never even friends-he was just a crush when I was too young to know it wasn’t going away.I think this is the lifetime where I am getting ready to ascend–I am the half of the twin who has the desire and I think I have this desire as a function to keep us in some kinda contact with each other. I think he knows something weird is going on within himself(regarding me) but I don’t think it’s the right time, or maybe even not the right lifetime. But we are getting close because my desire is driving me and I know who and what he is. I am watching him keeping track of what is going on in his life the best I can stand knowing about stuff It’s a comfort knowing he’s my twin flame and I possess this desire for some kind of utility. But I really think I am getting ready to ascend because I am waking up to so many things that most don’t…but I do have a lot of growth ahead of me yet.