Q. Do twin flames often push you away and leave you parting w/cold words and distance?
A. Can this happen when you encounter your twin flame? Yes, if there is unhealed parts of individual karma. It is important to know that when you encounter your twin flame in the physical (even before the physical), you will be confronted with all the pieces of yourself, since your twin is the clearest mirror for you of who you are. The goal of the twin flame journey is about service and moving deeper into the vibration of unconditional love. If you experience words that you may perceive to be “cold” and “distance,” this is an opportunity for you to see what beliefs, emotions are there for you to observe. This is a chance for you to know that underneath words that can be considered “cold,” is love. Many times words can be expressed that don’t feel as though they are coming from love as it may be something that is coming up for the person who is expressing them…and that most of the time, it doesn’t have anything to do with you…however, when you are receiving such from your twin, it is a chance for you to move deeper in unconditional love. Love yourself and love your twin through the process – and notice what is coming up within you that might need healing. You are loved and you are able to give love in the deepest sense.
There can be fear that comes up when one is presented with their twin flame…and that fear can come out in such behavior as you mention above. Where does the fear come from? It comes from a place of being wary or a bit concerned with being in such a vulnerable state, a transparent space of being seen for all that you are…for you cannot hide away from your twin. You are called to love all of yourself as you love your twin, like a seesaw, as they both go hand in hand. As you love yourself more, the love for your twin naturally rises because you see your beauty reflected in your twin and your twins beauty reflected in you. If the twin does leave or “run away,” then the twin who is being left is called to understand that that free will choice of not moving into physical union is just that, a choice, and it doesn’t change the profound love that you share and hold for one another – unconditional love for your twin brings you to the place of accepting whatever your twin decides in any moment, knowing that your physical separation does not mean that you are separated. Your souls and spirits are connected way beyond your physical bodies and you can elevate your vibrations and co-create together regardless of whether you are sharing direct contact in your lives.
May you connect to the truth of the eternal love that is present within you for you as well as your twin for in that love, you move closer in the vibration of unconditional love with your twin.