Q. So I’ve met my twin flame but I’m currently in a relationship. One which is very loving. I’m so pulled to be around my twin and we communicate regularly on the Internet sharing our experiences and life story. The reason we figured out we were twins is because of the many synchronicities we started to notice. One big one was our love for the number 11:11. he actually has a tattoo of it and I was planning on getting one. I added him as a friend on an 11:11 Facebook page to make friends of like minds. He messaged me a long message about his beliefs on what’s occurring on the planet and I felt super comfortable with his words automatically and a feeling of excitement came over me. As the synchronicitys continued and our spiritual paths and understanding were almost exact we both were wondering what was going on. This is around the time I was ready to get out of what I call my dark days of my ascension. I almost feel bad for having this intense love for someone else besides my boyfriends and the longing to b with my twin. And do some real work together. He understands my position and is supportive and comforting. I have grown alot since our connection. I’m learning unconditional love for all. But my limited humanistic mind feels like cheating. I know this is a learning experience and my soul mate relationship I have is for my growth but I’m just confused and want to make sure I’m not losing my mind.
A. I think that these two posts are going to help you tremendously with what you are currently experiencing with your soul mate and twin flame: Merging from Separation Mentality into Union Consciousness and Merging from Separation Mentality into Union Consciousness Continued
You are right on with what you feel, that through loving soul mate relationships we heal from love that has expectations, limitations, conditions and move into the space of truly understanding what unconditional love is, and that is does not exclude anyone, nor does it create separation. When we look through the eyes of Spirit (our heart) instead of Ego (our mind), we see very clearly that we are not separated from each other, and that all the love we have shared in and are sharing in is also being shared with our twin flame and everyone else…all of that love just joins together into this huge energy of deep love, which is ever deepening and growing, truly limitless. Spirit understands that there is a natural flow and divine order to life and love, that every step brings us higher on the ladder of love and closer to experiencing all aspects, spiritually and humanly, deep unconditional love.
Understanding this natural flow, we allow ourselves to be present with all that is in this now moment, including our intimate relationships and soul that we love in this now moment, knowing that the love shared is only increasing the love shared in the next now moment. Also, we know that the love shared in this now moment, is being sent to our twin flame to enhance the twins’ capacity for receiving and giving this deep love as well, ultimately this is preparing the both of you to merge together in all ways, through the space of the one heart, which only knows ecstatic true unconditional deep love.
This will be discussed in much more detail and all the steps towards twin flame union in my second book Rising Up the Ladder of Love: From Soul Mates to Twin Flame: The Path of Union Consciousness