Ok, so it isn’t a secret, we, as a collective are curious as to how relationships work, we are intrigued by the emotions, the complexities and yet, we struggle with the truth. How can we have a deep connection that lasts if we can’t be ourselves? How can we continue sharing with another if we are afraid of becoming hurt? Aren’t these feelings, the extension of fear what keep us complaining about love and running away from it? Isn’t the truth that even though we run away, deep down inside, all we desire is to be ourselves with another that we enjoy sharing with that is also being who they are, no masks, no lies, the truth.

I enjoyed the movie Crazy Stupid Love. It made me laugh to see the lengths that we can go to feel connection (on a superficial surface level) as in Ryan Gosling’s character moving from one woman to the next, as a game. It also made me feel sympathetic with Steve Carrell’s character, his heartache from parting with his “soul mate,” and how those deeper feelings for her never went away.

I noticed right from the start, how it was very obvious that there were so many stories going on within this one story (movie). All of the characters had their own perceptions of who they loved and were focused on their own emotions with what was going on in their own lives. As a result, nobody was listening to each other…they were just sharing their own stories…hence, the truth is hidden and assumptions can easily be made. The only way to break those would be to communicate clearly and listen openly…which I believe did eventually happen at the end: everyone’s truth was revealed.

Amidst all of the things that were hidden, all of the emotions not being honored, all of the assumptions made, there was a desire for deeper connection, the love that takes you away by the heartstrings, the love that keeps growing stronger through the years, the never ending quest for the “one,” the soul mate, the twin flame, a deeper love. Yes as Steve Carrell said, “when you find the one, you never give up.” This is a strong message in the movie…reveal your truth, let go of the fear, and let love in. You might not know what is going to happen in the next moment, but you are going to dive in with your eyes open and your heart open. You make a promise not to give up and to keep moving forward…the challenges we encounter in our relationships only enhance to make us stronger. Even though they may be uncomfortable when we are going through them, we move into a deeper love as a result for they offer us the chance to go within and discover what may be lurking there undercover waiting to be released. When we hide behind what isn’t true, we create separation from ourselves and each other. Truly, it is the connection that we crave, it is always the deep connection that keeps getting deeper as we grow older. It can be yours, if you choose it, and you “don’t give up.” Overall, this is a movie that brings the humor to the crazy, stupid parts of relationships so that we can move past them into the love part, after all, that’s where we truly desire to be, right?

Think about this: what if Jacob (Ryan Gosling) helped Cal (Steve Carrell) to find the self that he lost touch with instead of creating a new persona that wasn’t truly who he was? This is where I think we are shifting within our perception of how to be with and in relationships: ourselves. Movies like this one show us the humor in putting on an act where men act a certain way towards women (all of the gender roles). This is outdated…we shall continue to see this shift as we go along.

Nothing is ever random, I don’t believe in accidents, so while I was on the plane June 10, heading into MA, I was in the vibration of feeling love and noticing synchronicities…the movie on the plane was THE ADJUSTMENT BUREAU. What a powerful movie, I actually watched it twice already, many layers and more to unravel if you watch it again. This movie taps into the question of whether we create our own reality or if we are following a plan that has been laid out for us by “fate” or another hand. It brings up the union of both free will and destiny. When we realize what we desire, then we take an active role in creating it and following the steps leading into it as the universe supports us, despite the “plans” created beforehand…we can change the plan if it is not in alignment with us or add to it. This is powerful in itself.

When you add in the other theme that it brings up, it is a powerful combination…love…the love that you feel right when you meet someone, feeling the flow between your energies, recognizing a familiar essence as if you know each other beyond the “human mind” perception of knowing someone…and how easy it is to be yourself in the presence of this person. Then, what happens if the plan did not include this person? Would you tackle and confront all of the obstacles in the way of preventing you from being with the one that you love no matter what were to happen? Would you follow your mind or your heart? Do you just follow a path without feeling it?

When we realize that we have choices to make and can hold hands with our destiny, following it and creating it as we are guided through our heart, our whole life becomes a different experience.

Watched the movie Serendipity yesterday, one of my favorite movies…pay attention to all of the signs around you as EVERYTHING is there to support you and guide you along your journey to the deepest love you can imagine. AND when you get nearer to reunion with your true love, the signs increase, the energy builds up…and then…synchronicities will bring you into each other’s presence.

“To live in harmony with the universe one must possess a powerful faith in what the ancients call ‘fatum,’ otherwise known as destiny.”

When you connect to your passion and what brings you to life, you have a choice to take action towards fulfilling that dream bringing it into full manifestation. There may be others that come along your path and try to take you away from the road you desire to walk upon. You are the one that is in control of your destiny. You are the one that can make your dreams become an actual physical reality that you can experience. This movie will bring you along the journey of realizing and connecting with your life purpose, your dreams, your passion, following your hearts guidance no matter what comes your way. This also brings out what art and the expression of art really is for: “the job of an artist is to uplift man’s soul.” I’d have to say that any type of art is also for the reflection of the soul and the experiences that we find ourselves in offer more of that reflection, which we can then incorporate into expressions to share with others, which can then uplift their soul

The movie that was played while I was on the plane to Hawaii was LETTERS TO JULIET. Many of you who have been following me know that I consistently say that everything is perfect, that you encounter what you do when you do at the perfect time, and this movie, for me was an experience like that. It echoed my own messages back to me so beautifully, while adding synchronicities for me on my journey. Because of this, I have to share with you the sweet messages of love and connection that this movie brings out.

The trailer does share a lot of what occurs in the movie but I still recommend you taking the time to watch through it . One of the things that the movie shows is the power of love and how when true, deep love is experienced, it never fades. It doesn’t matter how much time goes by or how much physical distance is between the hearts, for if deep love is there, love will always remain and when you come together physically, it is as if no time has ever passed. Also, it mentions how important the feeling of deep connection and respect is within relationships, that there needs to be an equal amount of giving and receiving, and the desire to be with each other, to listen to each other and share together.

One of the messages that I always share is the power of letting go and that when you are in the space of letting go while holding love in your heart, when you are not focusing on making it happen or forcing it to happen, that is when love arrives. It is in letting go that you allow yourself to receive. As you release what you are holding onto so tightly, you allow the openness for it to actually come to you. This just coincides with the importance of being in the moment and enjoying your life right now, for it is in this moment that the universe guides you as to what next step to take on your journey.

Another important message is that love can arrive at any time. There is nothing that you have to do for it to happen, AND you do not have to be “single.” This is a myth, that you need to be single and not sharing love with another for deeper love to come to you. This movie shows that perfectly…you can be in relationship with another person sharing love, as relationships are always shifting, transitioning and changing as we do, and then deeper love can come your way. The best thing you can do before your true love arrives is to love deeper, be more fully in the moment, and choose happiness all the time. Be yourself in all moments. Don’t be afraid to be who you are as it is that energy of your natural essence that will draw to you your twin flame, the one that complements you perfectly, the love that you have always been connected to within your heart. You are Romeo and your Juliet is waiting for you. You are Juliet and your Romeo is on his way to you.

Here is the you tube video to Timer if you want to know more details.

What is a twin flame? A twin flame is the highest form of love, where you share love with someone who resonates on the same vibration as your soul, you think alike, feel alike, desire similar things, almost as if you are twins, because in essence, you are.

You have many soul mates throughout your life who join in relationship with you to help you to heal, grow and learn, to assist you in receiving this twin flame into your life, to fully embrace all that it means to be in such a relationship. A twin flame relationship is so much more than romantic, for you join together to continue to help each other to grow, heal, learn and elevate your capacity to remain always in the space of unconditional love. Also, you come together to jointly endeavor to create with one another (however that looks for each of you), to share in the deepest love imaginable, and to then share these creations and love with the rest of the world. Twin flames are reuniting right now, right here, for the purpose of assisting in the shift of the consciousness of the universe as they have agreed upon this before physical incarnation.

I believe in sharing my journey with you because my mission is to walk my talk, as my soul signed up for this specifically so that I can fully relate to those of you who are feeling the human emotions of the illusion of being physically separated from this twin flame. Right now, I am transitioning out of a very deep and close soul mate relationship, for the time has come for me to focus on continuing my purpose in teaching while holding space for my twin flame to come to me. My soul mate and I love each other so much, and are truly the best of friends, supporting each other through our growth and transitions with such unconditional love. It is so amazing and there are no words that could even come close to capturing how our experiences have been for our heart and soul. There are so many levels and layers of love that we have shared and will continue to share in this lifetime and beyond.

This movie that I am recommending you to watch, Made in Heaven, is a testament to my journey, as the exact details are so much the story of my twin flame and myself. I promise to share all of these details our physical reunion unfolds, for if you are reading this, you are on this journey with me. Sharing all of this is part of my mission in sharing these profound messages of this reunion. The power and love goes way beyond this lifetime and it is so beautiful. The important thing to remember is that you are NEVER separated from this twin…you are always together in heart and soul, as well as physically but it is the illusion of separation of life here on earth, that allows us to grow and heal while we have other relationships at the same time to experience this “separation.”

This movie brings up so much of what I have been sharing about soul contracts and how all those that are in your life have planned to be at this exact moment to help the both of you and anyone else as part of the contracts to fulfill what you have planned. Please recognize that every person in your life, whether you see the experience with them as “good” or “bad,” are there for a reason and your relationship with them is there because you both planned it. We are here in support of each others growth, and knowing this allows you to see the beauty of life. Pay attention to the people that he interacts with in heaven and then those that come to him on earth…

There are things that our soul remembers when we incarnate, and the more we move along our path, we are given glimpses of memory through signs from the universe, through soul mate relationships and our internal guidance. You are reading this right now for a reason and it is up to you to decide why it is, what message you will take from this, as well as how you will incorporate it into your life. You could also decide to just take it in and release it…you are given free will and therefore never forced to do anything. You are the creator of your life masterpiece and it is all beautiful.

We will be watching this movie and sharing in the love, the signs, the insight within it in so much detail and supporting each other at my retreat in NY in July 23-25. Come and join me, more info here: http://www.emergingsoul.com/ny-retreat.php

So back to this movie, it will offer you a lot of insight into how it is with twin flames…don’t take everything so literally for there are things that I don’t resonate with as to how heaven is portrayed, but let your soul see what resonates and then I’d love it if you want to share your experience while watching it with me. It is now available on DVD on amazon.

You can also watch it on youtube in about 10 parts here: Part One

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZWd8WWzkq2Y&feature=PlayList&p=58C2C970205E429C&playnext_from=PL&playnext=1&index=2

Here is the trailer for the movie:

Here is clips from the movie and the main theme song:

May you continue to believe in love, feel the essence of your twin within you, and know that all is in divine and perfect order.

With so much love,
Gabriella

Have you found yourself looking to outside sources, either people or actual things for support and guidance in your daily life? You are not alone. Many of us have been taught that we are born without power and we need something outside of ourselves for guidance or we need confirmation from others so that we know we are taking the right actions. However, the truth is that the only way for us to truly know whether or not we are taking the “right” action for ourselves is by listening to our own internal guidance and following our heart.

The first step in order to listen to this divine internal guidance is to believe that you can hear this guidance and that it is actually guidance. Perhaps you have learned that it is not “normal” to communicate with the divine realm or to hear, see, or feel guidance within your life. Normal is relative, consistently changing and what is normal varies from each person depending on the individual perspective.

The second step is to trust that when you follow the guidance, that you will be experiencing exactly what you need to be where you desire. The universe absolutely wants to support you in what you choose to experience, and therefore, the next step on your journey will be revealed as you take each step. Jack Canfield gave a great example of this in THE SECRET. He said that when you are driving to an intended destination, you can’t and don’t always see the destination, but you keep going as you see just a little ahead of you, and then when you get to that point, you see more of the path. That is exactly how it works with guidance.

The third step is to enjoy the journey along to your destination. Allow yourself to be in the moment, literally smelling the flowers. By being in the moment, you are able to notice the guidance that is helping you to experience all you desire and it helps you to feel alive as well as enjoy the excitement that living holds.

The last step is to receive all the love and support that is around you along your journey and to believe that you desire it, so that all you wish to experience will be yours.

I recently watched the movie Imagine That with Eddie Murphy. This movie brought out these old ideas regarding our own power of guidance and doubt that we really have everything inside of us to guide us along our journey. He was looking to outside sources for this reassurance on the steps he should take instead of feeling within his heart what he needed to do in each moment.

A successful financial executive (Eddie Murphy) has little time to spend with his young daughter (Yara Shahidi) . Then a personal crisis takes hold, and his career begins a downward spiral. But he finds the answers to his problems in an unlikely place: his child’s imaginary world.

This movie was a great movie for observing the dynamics of an intimate relationship as well as realizing the power of restricting one’s freedom through society’s rules. Both the main characters fall in love, get married, have kids, the man gets into a corporate job that he doesn’t enjoy to make money to pay for the house and other material possessions, and in the process, they both become restless. I remember once reading a quote that mentioned how we are mean only when we are dull with ourselves. We bring happiness to any situation or experience we are having, and we also have the choice to change it if we don’t desire to have that experience anymore. When we don’t, we have the opportunity to stay within the unpleasant emotions that can be created as a result of staying where we are not happy, where we are not utilizing our natural creative talents we have as spiritual beings. We can also get stuck in the false image that society creates: that we need to consume and possess more material goods, and we end up getting a lot of debt, then feel we need to get a job for security to pay off these debts when we end up not liking this job and it is merely just wasting our energy. If an opportunity is presented that we can take to do what makes our heart sing, we have a choice, to develop a new belief that we can have anything we desire and that the universe will help us to achieve our desires. OR we can stay in the place of fear, that we have something good, or at least that pays the bills (though never actually doing that – only getting us by) or take that leap of faith and take a chance. Martin Luther King said, “Faith is taking the first step even when you don’t see the whole staircase.” When we have a dream, taking the first step allows for the rest of the process to unfold but if we don’t take that step, then we are stuck right where we are, and will stay there forever, unhappy (if we choose – cause of course happiness comes from within us). We can break this if we choose. You will see during this movie the dilemma that Leonardo DiCaprio is confronted with, and you will see the result of what happens with what he decides. To stay within the “dream” of society or follow his inner dream? After watching this, I urge you to feel about where you are in your life with your inner longings, where do you want to be, what do you want to be doing? Then take the step to making it happen, knowing that the universe is in support of you and will guide you along throughout your journey.

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We can limit our experiences of life if we let fear, or other limiting feelings and beliefs stop us from experiencing the many aspects of life that are there for us to take part in. This movie presents the humorous perspective on saying yes to every single opportunity or experience that comes your way. Jim Carrey finds so many things to happen as a result of saying yes to suggestions, etc that come his way. This movie offers this perspective in a very humorous way, though ends with some wonderful insights: that we have the right to choose how we will react in any given circumstance, and that we don’t have to unconsciously take whatever comes our way, but we can feel where we need to be and take the steps to having an active role in our lives on the path to happiness in each moment. In this realization, also comes the message that we are to let go of fear and our perceived idea of “safety” so that we can have fun along our journey of life and experience all that we desire.