Sending you so much love!

Lynn i’m trying very hard to understand, come to grips with it, and accept this whole paradigm, that it is OK for him to be physically with his soulmate for the rest of his life, probably, but to have a very loving and passionate etheric connection with me. To be honest, it confuses me because people are always telling me it’s emotional adultery and cheating, an unhealthy addiction or obsession, just a fantasy, etc. But to me it feels so real, we feel the energy between us, we feel the love between us. We try to just be friends, but it doesn’t work for us, because we know we are so much more. So, I guess I’m trying to find the balance in this relationship, and stop being confused, and feeling guilty, torn, and jealous.

Me It is completely ok Lynn to feel all that you are feeling but I encourage you to stay true to what your heart feels rather than following what others say for again, relationships, and especially the twin flame relationship is beyond the mind, beyond the physical and can’t be placed in a box with rules and roles. Many people who say that it is fantasy, cheating, obsession and what have you is placing a judgment based on the limitations and creations from separation. Relationships are meant to be shared, expressed, within each moment which is why being here NOW is so important, to follow that guidance as it comes. All of those judgments are from the past of perceiving the roles people in partnerships should take, and *should* is a word not understood from the heart. The heart understands what is, what I feel now, then acts and responds from that place…truly nothing is every wrong…there are choices, opportunities for growth, then more choices…if we are free to love, and freely love, then we will follow our heart in each moment, letting go of anything that limits us, restricts us or makes us feel that what we feel is not real. What is not real is the perception that what we feel is not real.

Lynn: Maybe that is what my Twin has been trying to teach me all this time. He’s always telling me to Stay in the Now with him, to enjoy what we have together Now, and not worry about the future too much, because we really don’t know what will happen (and that’s another of his sayings when I get impatient or impulsive, we’ll see what happens). Maybe that’s how he compartmentalizes his life, by giving his attention to his world there, but when he’s with me, giving me his full attention, or as much as he can anyway.

Me So beautiful Lynn…to feel the opening of your perception in looking at this…keep going within that of what your twin has been showing you as there are many gifts in each moment as you move along with sharing love in each now moment with your twin. As you honor the love you share in each moment, you open the capacity for you to understand it in the vibration of love and to see what is there for you to see, for you to receive, and to increase your capacity for loving and allowing yourself to be fully loved, as you are, right now. ~ It is so true that we tend to attach ourselves to expectations for the future or bring in the past in the present, and therefore, we lose track of right now and then we don’t allow ourselves to be present with the love that is being given and received…for it is in right now as we increase the love vibration that it spirals out into the “future now moments,” bringing us into what we desire, more opportunities to be love and be loved ~ Or we also can as I mentioned before, put an emphasis on the physical or the relationship being a certain way before we allow ourselves to give and receive more love, and yet what is as it is right now to open us and to increase our capacity for loving right now. We limit ourselves while not realizing that we are doing so. ~

I understand how this feels from the human perspective, since we have emotions and needs, where we want to love physically as well as emotionally. When you are able to see all that I’ve expressed here in this post and the additional comments, you can see that the unconditional, deep, eternal love of twin flames always continuously gives you opportunities to increase your capacity to love and to receive love. I’ve mentioned many times before how all love that is shared is love shared with all, and that there truly is no separation in love. It can be hard to see this when we feel through our human emotions and try to see the entire situation at that point. In order to fully see it all, we do need to bring the spiritual sight in to see that true love desires the one we love to be happy, even if that means, in this moment (and that doesn’t mean another moment will be different), that happiness or choice does not include you physically. These by no means lessens the love or shows that it isn’t there. As the love between twin flames is always present, no matter how the outer circumstances are.

I will be honest here…and this will be expressed in more detail in my next book. Not all twin flames will be co-creating and loving in the physical sense in this lifetime (the clarity of your soul intention is always unfolding as you continue along your journey), nor will all twin flames be sharing in the physical sense of the human preference (being in a romantic relationship), but placing this limitation on the twin flame love is missing the point. The whole relationship is about seeing that the love is here now, for you to share in however it is now, unconditionally, and to allow your love and the awareness of your love to be brought into all other moments of your life, including all relationships as you are guided, to let that love expand your capacity for love, to love and be loved. It’s not as easy since we are also human and have human emotions and desires, but on it is so rewarding for the soul in its many aspects and ways that it offers growth and enhancing love. We are so used to seeing love as being shared in just the physical sense, but the twin flame love is SO much more than that. I understand your frustration Lynn…and I am sending you love. I do hope that you can get to the place (if you choose) of seeing the love being shared as not separate from you, and that you may be able to release the focus on your union in all ways (right now) into the focus of what *what is right now* IS revealing to you, and how it can help you to expand your heart into a deeper vibration of union consciousness.